Friday, 2 August 2013

Why hasn't he proposed yet?Here are the reasons.....

The reality is that many women look at relationships as the hallway to marriage. Yes they may be currently focused on just enjoying the benefits of their relationship but that doesn’t mean they’re not hoping or waiting for things to progress. The problem is that a lot of times the man they are with is not on the same page. He is enjoying the benefits and plans to ride this out for as long as he can. Saying the word marriage to him is like you just cursed at him. It rubs him the wrong way and makes him feel very uncomfortable…but why? I mean if he is with this woman, seems to be “happy” and all that good stuff, then what is really his problem? Specifics can vary but here are four very possible reasons why he hasn't proposed yet.

 1.    Because he can get all that he wants by being your boyfriend.
Most of you have heard the saying “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”. So there you have it in a nutshell. That guy may see no real incentive in agreeing to a deeper more binding commitment such as marriage. He is already receiving “wife benefits” so to marry her is pointless and in no way works to his advantage.

2.    Because he has a very negative perception of marriage.
Not everybody gets to witness a healthy relationship in their life. Many have grown up witnessing unhealthy relationships in their home and everywhere else they looked. So that person can easily develop such a negative view on marriage that they have convinced themselves of all the reasons why not to take that route. They still desire companionship but they see the “I do” as really meaning “What the hell did I just do”.

3.    Because he still wants to have sex with other women.
Let’s face it; there are plenty of men who struggle with the idea of having sex with just one woman for the…rest…of…their…life! I promise you some men just got nauseous reading that line. So that guy may be holding off on a proposal because he isn’t ready to give up the possibilities of “new ass”. I know what some may be thinking “but isn’t he in a committed relationship already?” True, but the line of thinking is different for many when you are not officially married.

4.   Because he isn't truly in love with you
Men can be  very deceptive,they know sex is all they want but can't  tell you they don't want you.It's left for you as a lady to know what you truly want in a relationship and decide whether to continue or not.
Will share signs to know if a man truly loves you in my future post...
     So ladies,be WISE.

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